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Zero Prospects

June 18, 2010

It’s a frustrating moment. You aren’t doing bad this year. You’ve got an impressive notch, starting to get one night stands, making out, fooling around with others. Girls are more open to you now when you approach. You’re actually having conversations and not getting instantly blown out. Yet you look at your phone, right now, and there’s nothing. You haven’t had a solid prospect in a while.

I’ve changed my goals somewhat. Fuck a phone number. I’ve gotten numbers when I could have gotten laid. I’ve went for phone numbers when I should have gotten laid. And I’ve gotten enough phone numbers over the past year that didn’t pan out.

“But Rook, you’ve gotta take these girls on dates.” Yeah I know, sometimes. I’ve had some of that too this year, hanging out, drink dates, and then nothing. I understand some girls make you jump through a few hoops.

They say in game that when it rains, it pours. They say a lot of things. Right now it’s drizzling. Like a tease between a downpour and a drought. I feel like I’m so close to busting through, but the rain clouds aren’t ready.

Cock tease.

I think the pendulum in my brain has swung from one side to the other. From only thinking phone numbers, to only thinking sex that night. Perhaps I need to nudge it the other way, just a little, to get some balance.

I know I’m doing more things right, right now, then just a few months ago. My confidence is at an all time high. It just sucks to be doing so well, then look at my phone, and see nothing.

11 Comments leave one →
  1. June 18, 2010 11:24 am

    Very similar to the way I feel right now.

  2. June 18, 2010 12:34 pm

    for awhile, i literally told girls “I don’t do phone numbers”….back when I was purely SNL hunting. on average, i averaged about the same notch per time as when i got a ton of phone numbers. I’m open to phone numbers now, but i don’t place ANY stock in them/no faith whatsoever.

    and yeah, some girls will make you jump through a few hoops, the trick is maintaining steam in that kinda pursuit. you do well with SNL’s for awhile, and it becomes mind numbingly boring to hack through some bullshit dates and work towards what you know could honestly already have taken place if she just let it. besides, deep down, you know she’s ragged out other dudes right off the bat, but now she’s making a stand, now she’s making YOU wait, just b/c she’s at “that point” in her life.

    Le sigh.

    • June 18, 2010 1:19 pm

      I think getting the same night lays is the end goal of game: cheapest, quickest way to sex. That’s my number 1 goal I’m working towards.

    • June 19, 2010 1:03 am

      …you know she’s ragged out other dudes right off the bat, but now she’s making a stand, now she’s making YOU wait, just b/c she’s at “that point” in her life.

      I hate that. I make it a point to stick with it, bang the girl, get her attached and then break her heart just for trying to pull that crap on me.

      • June 19, 2010 12:55 pm

        Yeah, I hate that shit too. I like your strategy, sticking with it just to fuck her over for pulling that bullshit on you.

  3. Icanhazherpeees permalink
    June 18, 2010 1:35 pm

    What’s a matter, Faggo?
    Roosh not giving you handies any more?
    Cheer up kiddo!
    You’ll get some AIDS!!!

  4. June 18, 2010 2:01 pm

    Icanhazherpes,

    How do you get AIDS from a hand job? Maybe if there’s a cut on the hand then you rub it right over the hole? This doesn’t make any sense

  5. June 18, 2010 2:49 pm

    My best nights out were from having zero prospects when I was hungry and motivated. Just having one solid prospect makes me lazy.

  6. June 19, 2010 3:58 am

    Man I’m at that point too, nothing I’m doing is hooking, you get a make out but that’s about it, I think when those times happen just take a step back, and maybe switch up your approach a bit. I’m actually field testing some stuff

    peace

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